WHAT ARE YOU LOOKING FOR?

While sitting with some friends, over a glass of wine, the other night, the subject inevitably reverted to my impending journey. Some just get it, some don’t. And I’m cool with that. I understand what security and having a family means to people. I love my family very much, and have a large one covering three states. And if circumstances were different, there’s a strong possibility I would not be doing this either. But if I couldn’t make this journey I doubt that I would ever be satisfied or really happy with life. Even with a family.

I have no children, though there was a time when I wanted them very much. But it was a life choice I made. And I cannot, honestly, say I regret it. Circumstances are not all the same. Many of my friends have children.. and grandchildren now, and for some of these going off on long trips around Australia is inconceivable! For others it is still a possibility. Maybe those who prefer to stay with their family have already been on their journey and found that ‘home’, that haven for the soul. It is there with their family. Even some of my single friends, don’t need to find where they are. They already know it. Jobs and security, family and friends have given them a deep sense of peace.

So when my friend Sue asked the question “what are you looking for?”, I tried to find the words to explain. A sense of peace and happiness; a sense of belonging; a sense of being in a place I wanted to stay / lay down roots; finding my ‘home’; being at peace with who and what I am. And no, I don’t need to find someone or be with someone. I think being with someone just so you are not alone leads to its own unhappiness.  I am looking for me, not them. Like I said. some get it, some don’t.

And there’s also the aspect of travel! Let’s face it.. I’ve been restless since being a little kid! I love to travel. Seeing the beauty of sunrise and sunset,  the crashing of waves on a wide, golden beach or the tall mystery of cool forests, uplifts me. Even an individual rock on a desert shore is stunning in its aspect. And Nature is such a great healer. Meditation, for me, is much easier away from suburbia.

Which doesn’t mean I want to avoid all humanity. On the contrary, nothing is more wonderful than finding someone you just ‘sync’ with, or a great character or fascinating stories. How do you think I found such beautiful friends?

And, of course, there are the other animals. As a huge animal lover and animal welfare supporter I hope I can find sanctuaries and conservation areas to work/ volunteer in as I go. I deeply believe all species of this planet need each other not only to survive, but also on some deeper level which enriches our souls and our lives. And I know there’s great evidence of this. Older humans thrive better and live longer with a companion animal. Sick humans have been known to recuperate better or quicker. Dogs in particular sense human needs or moods and respond accordingly and I love them deeply for their amazing ability to give loyalty and love so unconditionally. But there’s a whole raft of other species who bond with us. If we let them. If we don't destroy them.

So what am I looking for? A life worth living.

Till Next time. Have a Great Day.

The Grey Chihuahua